Love Dictates Us to Love

October 30, 2014 at 10:29 am Leave a comment


Lectio Divina: 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A

By Monsignor Francesco Follo

PARIS, October 24, 2014 ( –

1) The total Love. 

Jesus lived among men, and He, the Emmanuel, stays just because He loves us. To realize this love and live it we must first of all be humble. The humble person, like a child, feels “instinctively” the ones who love him, trusts them, and is happy when they come. Even his face is transformed by the joy and shows sadness when they leave. The humble people, listen to Christ because they understand that He came for them to bring the joyful good news of God’s Love. Nobody had talked to them like He did. Nobody had shown so much love for them.

When Jesus had finished speaking, the elderly, the Pharisees, the men who could read and earn, shook their heads as ill omen, got up grimacing and winking to each other annoyed and outraged, muttering a cautious disapproval.

But no one laughed for fear of the last ones: the Poor, the Shepherds, the Farmers, the Blacksmiths, the Fishermen, the Lepers, in short, the Rejected. They could not take their eyes off Jesus. They would have liked him to continue speaking, because a solace of light was (and is) coming from His wise words of love.

Jesus tells these words of love also to those who interrogate him, even if they do it to test him. To the doctor of the Law that asks, “Teacher, in the Law, which is the greatest commandment?1” Jesus gives a simple and effective answer and quotes two verses from the Torah, the document that encloses the experience of Israel. He reminds us that only by loving God with all ourselves we will be able to truly love others, because we would love them with the same love of God. Christ insists that our heart, soul and mind are attracted by God’s eternal love, and also tells us that between the two ancient and well-known commands, the second is similar to the first. The neighbor then becomes similar to God, and has voice and heart “similar” to God. God does not reserve the space in our hearts only for Him, but amplifies it and makes us capable of loving fully our neighbor: the wife, the husband, the children, the friends, the brothers and the sisters of the community.

To the wise man of the Law Jesus responds like a wise man of the heart. He knows that a creature needs a lot of love to live well. He offers his Gospel as a way to fullness and happiness in this life. “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your mind” (Mt 22, 37). We find this sentence three times in the Gospel of Matthew, four times in the one of Mark who adds “with all your strength” (Mk 12, 30). Jesus says that the only measure of love is to love without measure. If we love God without half-measures, the heart is capable of loving our family, our friends and ourselves. God is not jealous, he does not steal our heart but he multiplies it. Fullness does not mean exclusivity, then:

Love God 

With all your heart: Jesus does not speak of the “heart” with the meaning that today we would give to this word. He uses it in the biblical sense, as a term that expresses the deepest reality of the human being. “To love God with all your heart” means to turn one’s whole being and his or her actions towards God, in a burst of love.

– “With all your soul” which means life, our “intimate space” inhabited by God. “Love is the wing that God gave to the soul to rise up to him” (Michelangelo Buonarroti ). The one who loves with the soul, sees better with his or her eyes and his or her love is pure.

With all your mind, which includes thoughts and intelligence. Love makes cleverer, able to understand better and to go deeper and farther.

With all your strength, which means the set of all energies. Love makes us strong and able to face any obstacle and effort.

2) Two characteristics of true love: gratitude and gratuity. 

In the Gospel of Matthew, that the liturgy offers today, we find Jesus dealing with the Pharisees, who lived in the temptation to reduce moral to a set of rules, worrying about external appearance. The response of the Messiah is simple and effective. He quotes two verses from the Old Testament, the Torah, which encloses the experience of Israel, reminding us that only by loving God with all of ourselves we will be able to truly love our neighbor, because we will love him with the same love of God.

Where to start to love? From letting us be loved by Him, who enters and expands the walls of the small vessel that is each one of us. We are the loved who become lovers of Christ. The result, as seen in a loving couple in which one loves what the other loves, is that we love what Christ loves. And not only that; we must love as He loves.

We must live Christ as the model of our lives. And what does it mean that Christ is the ideal of our life? He is the model for the way we treat people, the way we live affection and the way we understand life and look at things and people and the way in which we live the relationships in our family, in the parish community and in the workplace. Christ as the model of life has two characteristics that are not the only ones, but today I want to stress these: gratitude and gratuity.

A grateful heart is always a faithful heart and the ability to be grateful and to say “thank you” is, I think, the sign of Christian maturity.

There are moments in life – I believe for everyone- in which one already here on earth experiences ‘paradise’, the true greatness and beauty of man. It is when we feel loved by someone else (mom, dad, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, and husband). It is an experience of love, the true one, the one of the heart, which I have no doubt to compare to a ‘taste’ of Paradise and to say that the best way to enjoy it is to say “Thank you” recognizing that we are not the makers but that everything that is given to us. Gratitude then inserts in us gratuity: we love without thinking of being loved. We look to the Other and to the others, as the Virgin Mary looks to Christ, not because He belongs to her but because He is there.

This is the absolute purity. Let us humbly make the effort to put ourselves in this absolute purity. It is a gratuity of purity that makes life incorruptible. In gratuitousness the human relationship is not null and void because with Christ and in Christ we are not together for interest, calculation or profit, but by faith and love.

Of course, the love of God is the greatest and the first: the primacy of God is affirmed without hesitation. Love for others comes second. In saying, however, that “the second is like the first,” Jesus states that between the two feelings there is a very close relationship.

Surely there is a different measure: the love of God is “with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind.” The love of man is “like yourselves.” Totality belongs only to the Lord: He alone is to be worshiped. But to belong to Lord cannot be without love for humanity. These are not two parallel commandments simply pushed together. It is not even enough to say that the second is based on the first. It is much more: the second realizes the first.

We can see an example of how to live these two commandments in the consecrated Virgins in the world. Their lifestyle is to start from their consecration to God and to speak always of God primarily with the testimony of their life. These women show that God must always be put first, and that man is made for God. This is what should never be forgotten, even where poverty and injustice are big and where society tends to build the world without God. This way of doing is always against humanity. These consecrated people live life as a mission, and with the grace of God show that it is possible to love chastely, to forgive fully and to serve joyfully and freely. In them the heart took the lead, but it is the Heart of Christ.

1 It is useful to remember that the rabbis had formulated from the Torah 613 laws so as to apply to all possible situations of life the primary rules of the 10 commandments. Of course, even the most rigorously observant Jew was lost in the forest of requirements and therefore the Jewish teachers were trying to identify a hierarchy, relevant distinctions and above all, a unifying principle for so many rules. Hence here the question presented to Jesus.

2 In the New Testament “psyche” = soul is a term used to denote life, real life, a person. See the concise, but clear and complete discussion in Critical Dictionary of Theology, edited by Jean-Yves Lacoste in the session “heart-soul-body.” Keep in mind that with the words “heart, soul, mind, strength” Jesus does not intend much to make a lesson of anthropology listing the different faculties involved in love, but rather to insist on the only important thing, which is to love God with our whole being.

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